WHY PREMARITAL SEX IS A BAD IDEA.
What is Premarital sex?
Premarital Sex is a sexual relationship between two people who are not married but choose to explore.
In this context I will be your guide on why you should avoid premarital sex before marriage.
During the process of dating, there is every possibility that the couple will choose to explore more before marriage. 'You don't need sex to prove you love someone' there are a million ways to show your partner who much you love them. due to the guilt of calling the act Fornication it is always refered to as Premarital Sex.
According to research, premarital sex is mostly found among youth between 20- 25 years old. There are many negative effects of premarital sex. Before indulging in such act why not ask yourself what you tend to gain? Or is it just for the pleasure.? Many religious beliefs frowns at premarital sex because they believe the act is ungodly.
This are most likely things a person may get from premarital sex. Let me analyze just a few among many others.
Unwanted Pregnancy
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STD)
Ungodliness / Unholiness
UNWANTED PREGNANCY
This practically points to the ladies, there is every possiblity of a lady becoming pregnant from the act of premarital sex. Looking around the society we live you will discover that most ladies you see with children but not yet married was due to premarital sex.
A lady who indulges in premarital sex and becomes pregnant can have a lot to loose. In a situation whereby she's still in college and becomes pregnant, this could lead to her dropping out of school to look after the unplanned pregnancy.
How will unwanted Pregnancy affect the guys.?
Premarital sex can make a guy who's either in high school or college to drop out of school in other to look after the girl he got pregnant. Becoming a father without proper preparation can be very frustrating. Most guys flee to Faraway community after impregnating a girl just to run away from those responsibilities, thereby making the girl to suffer alone with the pregnancy.
The most suitable advise to give to anyone is to practice what is called (A.B.C). Now what is ABC all about? A- stands for (Abstinence) B- stands for (Being careful) and C- stands for (Condom).
ABSTINENCE- Staying away from the act of premarital sex and anything that could lead you to it when you know you aren't ready.
BEING CAREFUL- Since we are all humans and full of flaws, being careful is very advisable. Know the kind of company you keep. Don't promise a guy sex as means of discharging them because they are disturbing you. If you don't like any form of communication or approach they make towards you, ask them to stop or report to the nearest authority as the case might be.
CONDOMS- For those who can't control the urge, making use of condoms before sex is the best choice you could make to avoid any form of STDs. Go to any any Pharmacy and get an original condom before sex.
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTION (STI)
Generally, the most common effect of premarital sex is the transmission of sexual infections from person to person. People with this types of infections might not have idea of this deseases and may end up sharing it with you if you don't take cautious.
This infections include the following- HIV- Human Immune Virus, Syphilis, Staphylococcus, Virgina Discharge, Urinary Tract Infection, gonorrhea etc.
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